10 common sex-related myths Indians believe, and what science actually says.
In a country where sex is whispered about more than it’s talked about, myths thrive. From school corridors to family WhatsApp groups, misinformation about sex spreads fast — and it’s time we clear things up.
1. You can’t get pregnant the first time.”
Myth: First-time sex can’t cause pregnancy.
Truth: Pregnancy can happen any time unprotected sex occurs — even the first time. Sperm doesn’t care if it’s your first or hundredth time.
2. Masturbation causes weakness or health issues”
Myth: Masturbation leads to memory loss, weight loss, or “loss of power.”
Truth: Masturbation is completely normal and medically safe. In fact, it helps release stress and improve sleep. Overdoing it may affect your focus — but the act itself is harmless.
3. Bigger size = better performance”
Myth: A larger penis guarantees better sex.
Truth: Pleasure depends on emotional connection, technique, and comfort, not size. Also, most vaginal nerve endings are near the opening — not deep inside.
4. Only boys think about sex”
Myth: Girls are not interested in sex or don’t have sexual desires.
Truth: Both men and women experience desire — though society teaches women to suppress or hide it. It’s natural for everyone.
5. Sex before marriage is illegal in India.”
Myth: Pre-marital sex can land you in jail.
Truth: Consensual sex between adults (18+) is legal in India. However, cultural norms and family expectations may differ.
6. Only physical sex is sex.”
Myth: Only penetration counts as “real sex.”
Truth: Oral sex, mutual masturbation, and other intimate acts also fall under the spectrum of sex. They still carry emotional and physical risks (including STDs).
7. Girls don’t watch porn”
Myth: Porn is a “boys’ thing.”
Truth: Women also watch adult content — though usually in private due to societal judgment.
8. Virginity = Hymen”
Myth: If a girl’s hymen is broken, she’s not a virgin.
Truth: Hymens can break due to sports, exercise, or tampon use. Virginity is a social concept, not a medical one.
9. Condoms are 100% effective.”
Myth: Condoms completely eliminate the risk of pregnancy or STDs.
Truth: Condoms are highly effective but not 100% effective. When used correctly, they reduce pregnancy risk by about 98% and protect against most STDs.
10. Talking about sex is dirty or bad.”
Myth: Discussing sex is vulgar or corrupts youth.
Truth: Avoiding conversations around sex leads to shame, ignorance, and risk. Sex education helps people make informed, safe, and respectful decisions.
Final Thoughts:
India doesn’t need more silence around sex — it needs safe, respectful, fact-based conversations. Whether you’re 16 or 60, knowing the truth helps protect your health, relationships, and peace of mind.
